Why does this happen???
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Lurch1982
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So what the hell are you doing at a video game forum?</font>[/QUOTE]Being a jerk and I work at the sites.Originally posted by Prince Toad:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Lurch1982:
I'm a jerk in real life too, so girls flock to me. Too bad they're all psychotic or stupid. Trust me, anyone as petty as to get off on the whole "He's a jerk, i can change him, or whatever" philosophy isn't worth your time unless you're into shallow and unstimulating relationships.
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jbboo
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No, you're not crazy, either that, or we're both losing it.I have been told by many girls that I am better than decent looking, I am very athletic doing sports all 4 seasons, I am extremely nice to girls/women, I am funny, smart, and yet any girl would go straight to the text-book ******* guy who goes to the weightroom 5 times a week but does nothing and treats girls like crap. Why are girls attracted to the nasty "I'm trying to be hard" guys when they know that they are just going to mistreat them, forget their birthdays/anniversaries and eventually cheat on them. Why why why??? Can anyone shed light on this situation? Am I just crazy?
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jbboo
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How the hell did just letting things happen work?Oh the horrific truth . I have decided that instead of searching for a girlfriend I will let things happen. In the past this has worked out for me so I am expecting one of two things:
1) A girl actually notices me.
2) I have no contact with the opposite sex for a while .
I've been trying that all my life, and it hasn't worked yet. :(-
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Shinigami
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Okay...wow. None of you--and I mean none of you--understand jack **** about attraction and the way it works. Perhaps some of you do, I take that back. Lurch is perhaps the only one I see even getting a woman. Okay...let me start this off...
You guys need to understand that there is a large gap between being a woman's boy friend, and a woman's boyfriend. If a woman wanted a guy who would wipe their ass and call them every second, they would date a lesbian, or at least be into that kind of thing. I'm not saying I'm the King of Knowledge when it comes to women, but I think I know some things, and these things have helped me out, so I'm sharing my experiences with you guys.
Yeah, sure, Mr. Looks might be a good thing, but women are different than men, boys. Look at the equipment, and the mentality. Women rely on something called meta-messages to choose what they want, and these meta-messages come from the way we men speak, act, etc. Body language plays a huge role. Make slow movements, take your time to speak (do NOT speak fast!), and all the other good stuff to make her know what the ****'s going on. If you want to know how to move and act around women, watch Ocean's Eleven, or some movie like that. By the way, be very careful of your posture. Don't come off as needy. DO NOT come off as needy. Make the woman WANT YOU because YOU have something that NO other man can give her. THAT is the type of power you need to get. Also, if she offers sex, decline. This may sound bat-**** insane, but it will throw any woman for a loop, and make them rethink their strategy. It will set you apart from other men, and increase your appeal. If you are insecure, kiss your chances with women good-bye...at least for a while. ALSO, you should remember that IF you get a girl, do NOT start kissing her ass TOO much. Be a man, not a woman. Don't call her every second. Don't PAY for the meal--offer to split. These things may help you. It's good to meet women at coffee shops, or perhaps even malls. It's a good way to get to know a person without actually being a *****.
If you'd like some more information from me, contact me through AIM at Shujou Shinigami.
Ciao, amici.
P.S. Do not be Mr. Nice Guy around women. It's true that Nice Guys finish last with most women. I hate to generalize, but it is true. If the girl makes a mistake, point it out, and show her that you have the balls to tell her she ****ed up, but do it with STYLE. Don't be just an ass.
Example:
Girl: Hey, how--how are you?
You: I'm fine, but I'm not sure about you. What's wrong? Stuttering because you just can't stop thinking about me? We only just met. I don't move that fast, you know.
Something along those lines. It shows that you are both unafraid of her good looks, and it speaks what you really want.
And finally...to seal it all off, a quote of Robert DeNiro's from a movie:
"One Night stands may be over by morning, but syphilis lasts a lifetime."
[ January 16, 2004, 01:17 PM: Message edited by: Shinigami ]
You guys need to understand that there is a large gap between being a woman's boy friend, and a woman's boyfriend. If a woman wanted a guy who would wipe their ass and call them every second, they would date a lesbian, or at least be into that kind of thing. I'm not saying I'm the King of Knowledge when it comes to women, but I think I know some things, and these things have helped me out, so I'm sharing my experiences with you guys.
Yeah, sure, Mr. Looks might be a good thing, but women are different than men, boys. Look at the equipment, and the mentality. Women rely on something called meta-messages to choose what they want, and these meta-messages come from the way we men speak, act, etc. Body language plays a huge role. Make slow movements, take your time to speak (do NOT speak fast!), and all the other good stuff to make her know what the ****'s going on. If you want to know how to move and act around women, watch Ocean's Eleven, or some movie like that. By the way, be very careful of your posture. Don't come off as needy. DO NOT come off as needy. Make the woman WANT YOU because YOU have something that NO other man can give her. THAT is the type of power you need to get. Also, if she offers sex, decline. This may sound bat-**** insane, but it will throw any woman for a loop, and make them rethink their strategy. It will set you apart from other men, and increase your appeal. If you are insecure, kiss your chances with women good-bye...at least for a while. ALSO, you should remember that IF you get a girl, do NOT start kissing her ass TOO much. Be a man, not a woman. Don't call her every second. Don't PAY for the meal--offer to split. These things may help you. It's good to meet women at coffee shops, or perhaps even malls. It's a good way to get to know a person without actually being a *****.
If you'd like some more information from me, contact me through AIM at Shujou Shinigami.
Ciao, amici.
P.S. Do not be Mr. Nice Guy around women. It's true that Nice Guys finish last with most women. I hate to generalize, but it is true. If the girl makes a mistake, point it out, and show her that you have the balls to tell her she ****ed up, but do it with STYLE. Don't be just an ass.
Example:
Girl: Hey, how--how are you?
You: I'm fine, but I'm not sure about you. What's wrong? Stuttering because you just can't stop thinking about me? We only just met. I don't move that fast, you know.
Something along those lines. It shows that you are both unafraid of her good looks, and it speaks what you really want.
And finally...to seal it all off, a quote of Robert DeNiro's from a movie:
"One Night stands may be over by morning, but syphilis lasts a lifetime."
[ January 16, 2004, 01:17 PM: Message edited by: Shinigami ]
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WEAPON
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I agree with everything you said, except this.Originally posted by Shinigami:
Don't PAY for the meal--offer to split.
Think about the impression you give when you pay for the meal. It shows that you're not cheap, you can take care of her, and it's just plain chivalrous.
Now think about the impression you give when the bill comes and you say, "Hmm, your shrimp fettucine was $13.99...add tax and tip...yea, I'm gonna need about $17 from you." Exactly.
I'm not saying you have to pay everytime, especially when you don't have the funds to do so, but at least do it most of the time, especially on the first date for that positive first impression.
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Shinigami
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I agree with everything you said, except this.Originally posted by WEAPON:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Shinigami:
Don't PAY for the meal--offer to split.
Think about the impression you give when you pay for the meal. It shows that you're not cheap, you can take care of her, and it's just plain chivalrous.
Now think about the impression you give when the bill comes and you say, "Hmm, your shrimp fettucine was $13.99...add tax and tip...yea, I'm gonna need about $17 from you." Exactly.
I'm not saying you have to pay everytime, especially when you don't have the funds to do so, but at least do it most of the time, especially on the first date for that positive first impression.</font>[/QUOTE]Well, I didn't mean never buy her dinner. For the first date, never take a woman out to dinner. Make them dinner. They appreciate it more, and enjoy the cooking because you made it. If you love to cook, then, well, it works out for you, too.
[ January 16, 2004, 01:18 PM: Message edited by: Shinigami ]