Goku Is Not A Good Father (aka The Official DBS Liveblogging Thread)
Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2016 10:26 pm
I am almost at the end of the Frieza arc, and this is a Goku's Parenting Call-Out Post.
Goku does not deserve Gohan. Goku is a great friend and a great person, and he loves Gohan very much, but he isn't a great dad.
Goku always has to be the ~big damn hero~ that is like "you guys leave I'll take care of the rest" and YELLS at Gohan to leave and gets MAD AT HIM for wanting to stay and help, he loses his temper with his traumatized 9yo son for hesitating on the battlefield before leaving as told,, which is RIDICULOUS considering the LAST battle he would have died if Gohan hadn't disobeyed him and come back for him!! He doesn't treat him as a fighting equal and he pulls the "I'm your father, I'm right, listen to me!" card to make Gohan obey.
And then as Gohan is flying away, scared and confused and holding his DYING MENTOR WHO WAS KILLED IN FRONT OF HIM *AGAIN*, Gohan the precious pure **** soul that he is swallows his feelings of being upset and confused about his dad and tells himself "my dad is so awesome, he's the best, he's right I need to just listen to him." Goku expects his son to just follow his orders and even lashes out at him, and then Gohan brushes aside his feelings of being upset about it!!!! Because he thinks he was in the wrong!!!!!!!!
Goku is never there when Gohan is fighting because he's always 15 episodes late and tbh if he wants to make a show about protecting his son he should maybe save his life every now and then like ALL OF THE OTHER CHARACTERS HAVE, INCLUDING VEGETA, and try fighting alongside him rather than just yelling at him to leave all the time and not respecting him as a comrade!!!!!! I AM SO UPSET YOU CAN'T JUST GIVE HIM HEALING BEANS ONCE AND THEN THINK IT MAKES UP FOR AN ENTIRE SERIES OF NOT BEING THERE
GOKU DOES NOT DESERVE THE UNDYING LOVE AND RESPECT THAT GOHAN HAS FOR HIM AND I HOPE HE OWNS UP TO IT THE WAY PICCOLO DID BC GOHAN DESERVES BETTER.
Also, like, I legitimately don't know whether Goku's questionable parenting is supposed to come off that way or not. Like I feel like it's made pretty clear that Gohan is upset and confused by Goku's behavior and it was pointed out that Goku is struggling to not lose who he is as he goes Super Saiyan, so maybe the show also thinks he is being a **** dad right now?? I mean Vegeta (pre-death *Vegeta* of all people) also made a point ~20 episodes ago about how Gohan doesn't even know where his dad is because he's never there.... which means it might be actually addressed later, which I REALLY want to happen.
It would be really nice if DBZ showed that even ~super great dudes~ can be flawed and hurt the people they care about. Apologize to Gohan please. #GohanDeservesBetter
Goku does not deserve Gohan. Goku is a great friend and a great person, and he loves Gohan very much, but he isn't a great dad.
Goku always has to be the ~big damn hero~ that is like "you guys leave I'll take care of the rest" and YELLS at Gohan to leave and gets MAD AT HIM for wanting to stay and help, he loses his temper with his traumatized 9yo son for hesitating on the battlefield before leaving as told,, which is RIDICULOUS considering the LAST battle he would have died if Gohan hadn't disobeyed him and come back for him!! He doesn't treat him as a fighting equal and he pulls the "I'm your father, I'm right, listen to me!" card to make Gohan obey.
And then as Gohan is flying away, scared and confused and holding his DYING MENTOR WHO WAS KILLED IN FRONT OF HIM *AGAIN*, Gohan the precious pure **** soul that he is swallows his feelings of being upset and confused about his dad and tells himself "my dad is so awesome, he's the best, he's right I need to just listen to him." Goku expects his son to just follow his orders and even lashes out at him, and then Gohan brushes aside his feelings of being upset about it!!!! Because he thinks he was in the wrong!!!!!!!!
Goku is never there when Gohan is fighting because he's always 15 episodes late and tbh if he wants to make a show about protecting his son he should maybe save his life every now and then like ALL OF THE OTHER CHARACTERS HAVE, INCLUDING VEGETA, and try fighting alongside him rather than just yelling at him to leave all the time and not respecting him as a comrade!!!!!! I AM SO UPSET YOU CAN'T JUST GIVE HIM HEALING BEANS ONCE AND THEN THINK IT MAKES UP FOR AN ENTIRE SERIES OF NOT BEING THERE
GOKU DOES NOT DESERVE THE UNDYING LOVE AND RESPECT THAT GOHAN HAS FOR HIM AND I HOPE HE OWNS UP TO IT THE WAY PICCOLO DID BC GOHAN DESERVES BETTER.
Also, like, I legitimately don't know whether Goku's questionable parenting is supposed to come off that way or not. Like I feel like it's made pretty clear that Gohan is upset and confused by Goku's behavior and it was pointed out that Goku is struggling to not lose who he is as he goes Super Saiyan, so maybe the show also thinks he is being a **** dad right now?? I mean Vegeta (pre-death *Vegeta* of all people) also made a point ~20 episodes ago about how Gohan doesn't even know where his dad is because he's never there.... which means it might be actually addressed later, which I REALLY want to happen.
It would be really nice if DBZ showed that even ~super great dudes~ can be flawed and hurt the people they care about. Apologize to Gohan please. #GohanDeservesBetter